Jen
KurJen - Kurgan Mod
I just want to say that you guys have been a great help. I think I got better input from you guys than my family. It's funny, my brother and my mom tells me that I don't want to know what she did. They say I will never look at her the same, maybe she thinks this too, she's told me "No, I would never sleep with someone else because I know you would never look at me the same" I htink I would feel that way for a little while but I think that I would eventually let it go. I would treat her with her respect because she was WOMEN enough to tell me the truth!
Exactly - if she can come clean and be honest - that will help pave the way for forgiveness and possibly working towards making this work. If she can't even do that - how can you move forward? You will always have doubts and it will be especially difficult to rebuild trust.