Which situations did he barely use his spider powers for? Which? I pointed out the only times it's ever used in a fight (deleted scene doesn't count seeing as how they cut it out for a reason). Which heroes did Tobey and Andrew's Spideys grow up with? At best we get Easter Egg mentions but they're never shown or hinted at having any particular impact or weight in the world in direct contrast to the one MCU Peter grew up in.
How am I the one not reading properly when I pointed out that he doesn't rely on the suit other than that one fight with Otto? At best it's a breathing apparatus on Titan, and besides, there's a bit of a difference between fighting on a moving train (which is very difficult don't get me wrong, but much less so for a man with super-fast reflexes and sticking ability) and fighting to defend yourself against a previously unknown enemy while he hurls entire cars at you full of people you also need to save. Tobey had experience with Otto prior to the train and he wasn't distracted by constantly having to save passengers being flung onto the tracks. in NHW the Goblin only showed up after that was all resolved and the rest of the bystanders had enough time to escape.
This Peter only joined the Avengers when they needed his help and when it was directly threatening the very neighborhoods he was fighting to protect. What responsibility would he have had rejecting that fight and twiddling his thumbs in New York?
How on earth did Tom not go through pain and loss before this film? He had to die on an alien world with the cruelty of feeling it coming and the process lasting longer because of his powers, got resurrected having missed 5 years of life and only to lose a mentor and father figure, and was emotionally tortured and gaslit by Mysterio who later revealed his identity and framed him as a god damn murderer. He's gone through at least as much hardship as both Tobey and Andrew if not more.
He is nowhere near as reliant as you're painting him as and both FFH and NWH reinforce that he's his own person and not Tony.
"Again no way home is probably the first time he throws a punch and fights like Spider-Man instead of using a billion dollar suit that has nanotechnology and literal armor ." You are just flat out wrong, even in Infinity War he's punching Thanos in the face. Homecoming and Civil War are the only films where he doesn't throw any and it's an intentional choice because he's like 16 at that point and isn't fighting anyone with super durability.
The trilogy wanted to reinforce his supporting cast (which has always been a part of Spider-Man storytelling) and show their usefulness rather than being damsels or simple background characters. I really don't see how there's a problem with him having friends playing a part and we see the kind of storytelling it allows in NWH.
You keep complaining about the FFH suit's tech when all it provided was a way for him to get to the bridge from the plane and taser a few drones to break the illusion. The rest of the fight, Peter isn't using any special tech from Stark and is entirely reliant on his own innate abilities when he loses webbing as well. Hell, he finally beats Mysterio by closing his eyes and relying on his spider sense. How are you really going to claim that he needs the suit to win all of these fights? Peter is framed as Tony's spiritual successor, not his protege. He was Spider-Man before he met Tony and as Happy states, he's not Iron Man. The films go out of their way to directly contradict the claims you're making and you entirely ignore them in favor of focussing on the nifty-looking costumes.
